Saturday 27 January
On the way back to Delhi
On the bus our guide named kumar (not his real name, he said it’s too hard to pronounce, so that’s kind of his stage name) calls a bathroom stop a “technical stop.” It took us a while to figure out what he meant, so now he says a pee-pee stop.
One thing I would like to mention is how much India is a live & let live place. People are just hanging out going about their lives, and I haven’t really seen one argument or public spectacle. The attitude here is called chalta hai, which means (American translation) “what are you gonna do? Shit happens.”
New developments in the mass-murderer pedophile case. After their initial hearing, the former MP & his also-implicated servant were attacked by a crowd (one account says by a bunch of lawyers?!?!?) & were sent to the hospital. This required all kinds of security barriers and a lot of people couldn’t get in, a 2-yr-old boy who fell on the stove in his house died of his burns for lack of care.
Another three news items:
Bombay High Court has ruled that a muslim man saying I divorce you three times (talaq talaq talaq) is not enough for a divorce, that arbitration should be tried first. The case is of a man who said the triple talaq & paid his wife the requisite 600 rupees for the iddat, her 3 menstrual periods after pronouncement of talaq. That’s about $14. maybe if a husband talaqs you & you’re menopausal you get paid forever? The court is saying that’s not good enough. Interesting case of religion v state.
A servant is protesting that the Rs1.5 lahk (lahk = 100,000 rupees) she was promised for her kidney was not paid by her employers, who only came up with 60,000 rupees (less than $1400). By the way, 1 crore = 10 million rupees. Interesting how they lump larger amounts under different names.
A couple of teenagers kidnapped a 6-yr-old boy to get enough ransom to buy a motorscooter, but killed the boy because he didn’t know his home phone or his mother’s cell number.
On the road: The country people use cow dung for fuel. They mix dry grass in & pat it into cakes about 8” across and then put it out to dry when it’s dry they use the cakes stacked up for fences, walls, etc., or display it on the roof in an overlapping circle that looks like the top of a fancy pear tart. They also stack it into beehive shapes – sometimes almost as tall as a person.
The weather was very foggy/smoky this morning & as we were driving, honking constantly of course, I was thinking that in this situation we often get huge chain-accident pileups. Sure enough, about 2 minutes later we drove past a 4-car pileup, with people pulled out of the cars lying on the median.
By the way, people passing through toll booths on camels have to pay the same toll as cars.
We will spend one night in delhi, then catch the plane back at midnight Sunday. Don’t know what we will do between checkout time & the flight.
This is probably my last message. I have really been impressed with this country & how friendly the people are despite their often dire circumstances. A smile and hello is enough to get a positive response from just about anyone. The sensory overload of colors smells tastes sounds & crush of people & animals was just amazing. I will be happy to get home where it’s clean & QUIET. And will not eat Indian food for a good while. I’m up for a lot of salads & a hamburger.